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How To: Throw The Ultimate Bachelor Party
The renowned bachelor party could be the most anticipated night of a man’s life, with the exception of his wedding day, of course (smirk). But it’s not only one more night of pure debauchery before marriage for the groom-to-be, but rather a night for all men to be… well, men.
As Best Man, you want this to be a night for all to remember -- oh, and for the guy getting married to enjoy as well.
preparations Planning the night is probably the most important step -- this is where all the plans are laid out for the magic to happen.
1-- The guest list
In order to ensure that you’re not forgetting anyone important (or inviting others who didn’t receive an invitation in the mail), plan the guest list with the groom, or at least have him scan the list himself beforehand. Include the groom’s best buds, relatives, and others that just have to be invited out of politeness.
Since his Amish cousin Jeb and uncle Leo may be present, plan the night by going to a restaurant or starting the night out with cocktails at someone’s house. Once they’ve said their goodbyes, proceed with the rest of the festivities.
Then come the girls. Now the essence of a bachelor party is that there are no girls. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have a few of those wild female friends you’ve all had a good time with, for good measure.
I’m not talking about inviting the fiancée’s friends -- in no way should the female guests be associated with the fiancée -- this cannot be stressed enough. Invite some party girls who have no relation to your everyday crowd, the girls who always want to be around for a good time. If you don’t know of any, just call them up at 976-WILD.
2-- Where you’re going
This usually includes a strip club, a strip joint, oh, and did I mention a gentleman’s club? The night could also involve a restaurant, a casino, his favorite bar, and you may want to cap off the night at a hotel room (the best of the best) or rented penthouse, unless someone is brave enough to offer his pad.
3-- Transportation
It’s important to know where the party is headed all night, in order to arrange how you’ll get from place to place -- no designated drivers allowed. Rent a limo for your buds so that no one has to worry about how much they drank, and the only concern is whether or not the champagne is still flowing.
You’ve got the people; you’ve got the places -- what’s next?
4-- Extra expenses Since you’ll probably be a loud and obnoxious bunch, forewarn the kind management at each establishment that you’re holding a bachelor party, so they won’t be surprised when your friend starts approaching all the women in the joint to give them a little spanking. Once you arrive at each party spot, give whoever’s in charge a little extra coin for special treatment. This includes your limo driver for the evening -- do it before the night begins.
Also, make sure to set aside some money in case you’re liable for any extra costs, like if you trash a hotel room (your friend putting all his dough in Candy’s thong does not count).
